Humans are like water, they adapt themselves to the place they bump into, if they find a comfortable location they will calmly rest there, otherwise they will course in search of a better place.
Humans are like the pieces of a puzzle, it could be a magnificent puzzle or a terrible one, they can be a central piece or a peripheral one, but every piece needs all the other pieces to form an image. Anyhow, the great thing of being a person is that if you do not like the image you form with the other pieces, you can always create your own new puzzle.
Humans are social animals, they can live alone, they can live in packs, they can act like hermits, but there will always be something in their head that tell them they should find some kind of companionship, sooner or later. Every person deep inside his heart seeks his place in the world, nobody really wants to live in its own isolated world.
Like it or not, humans live in the society and they are inevitably influenced by other people, they need each other as they make part of the same world. Equally, no human should think he is who others think. Yes, indeed our background leaves a mark about who we are, our friends have an influence on our personality and behaviour, but is not this normal? Should we build a wall around us to stop all the external influences? Of course not. Everyone is who he choose to be, we have free will and we can decide what kind of person do we like to be, for better or worse.
In any case, whether you like who you are or not, there is always something you can do to change yourself, it could be very hard and exhausting but it’s worth the risk, you just have to really want it. Do or do not, there is no try.
Humans are like books, they could be of different genres, they could be long or short, interesting or boring, they can come from a foreign country, but there will always be some content hidden in its pages. Don’t judge a book by its cover.